Classroom Rules
by Debra Conley
An object
lesson in following the rules is a good way to start the new year. For a visual
aid, use a huge check made out to any student; include a large sum in the
amount space, or the word “success.” Here’s the lesson:
A student
once argued with me that following all the school rules and my classroom rules
was a useless waste of time. Why couldn’t he just do things the way he wanted
to, as long as he could pass the tests? Here’s the answer I gave him:
“John, when
you leave high school, I assume you will immediately start your own company
with your own money and resources and begin living your life to your complete
satisfaction.” He gave me the startled look I expected.
“Well, I’ll
have to get a job and earn some money before I could start a business,” was his
reply.
“What
business will you start?” I asked.
“I don’t
know if I had really thought about starting my own business. I just want to get
a job so I can earn enough money to do what I want.”
“So, what
you are saying is that you will go to work for someone else in order to get
where you want to be?”
“Yes, that’s
the only way I know how to do it,” John said, as if I had to ask.
“Will you
agree to let the company train you in a job? Will you read the company rule
book and the procedures manual if it is required for this job? Will you do what
the boss tells you?”
“I guess so;
I’d probably get fired if I didn’t,” he said.
“Exactly!” I
exclaimed. “You will do what someone else tells you to do in order to get where
you want to be. And will this company pay you before you have done your work?
Of course not. Look at your situation here at school as your job right now.
Your diploma is your paycheck. You are doing what the boss says in order to get
that paycheck. If you are willing to do that next year, why not get a head
start on it this year? Practice being in your job now.” This made sense to John
and he became much more agreeable.
Take this
example one step further. Being in God’s will is like pleasing the boss, if you
will pardon my worldly comparison. We are told numerous times in Scripture that
we will not be truly happy unless we are in God’s will. And it is not in my
Bible that we can be happy (pass the test) without conducting our life His way.
We are warned of trying to conduct our own affairs in our own way in the
parable of the lost son (Luke 15). Just as we make up our minds to do
what we need to do in this earthly life for rewards, make up your mind to do
what needs to be done for the blessings of God now (Ephesians 3:20). More
importantly, seek the eternal reward, the big paycheck (Matthew 6:19-21).