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Wise and Foolish Man

Wise and Foolish Man

by Debra Conley

In Exodus 33:22 Moses is fearful of God’s command to leave a
place of safety, Sinai.  God gives Moses this assurance: “I will put you
in the cleft of the rock, and will cover you with my hand while I pass by.”
Caves are one of God’s magnificent creations and are also ones that He uses as
a symbol of safety and protection. Could anything harm you if God’s hand
covered the entrance to your cave? Read or sing the words to a great hymn
representing this verse, He Hideth My Soul.

The early church of the first century hid in caves, many of
which can still be viewed in Jerusalem and in Rome. Hebrews 11:38 makes
reference to Christians using caves as a means of safe travel through cities
where they were persecuted. These connected caves were called catacombs. The Greek
meaning of “Catacomb” would be “hollow in the ground.” The idea of catacombs
meaning a place of burial occurred only after these “hollows” were discovered
to be an ideal burial place. An excellent history and pictures of these caves
can be found at www.leaderu.com/theology/burialcave.html.

The Foolish Man and the Wise Man built their houses on
different foundations, one of rock and the other of sand. The song refers to
Matthew 7:24-27 and is a great illustration for our lives to be built on the
firm foundation, that of the Word of God. Just as caves protected Christians
from harm, a solid foundation protects us from destruction. Use the following
hands on demonstration to show students how a foundation that has no solid base
(one that shifts with every whim of the world) is dangerous. Fill a large wash
pan with sand. Ask teams of students to see who can build a house of cards (use
3X5 cards) on the sand. You can create a race to see which team can get the
most cards stacked the highest before it falls, or to see who can keep their
house standing the longest. Either way, the minute the sand is moved or
shifted, the cards will fall.

Now build the same house of cards with a solid base such as
a table top or game board mat. How much longer does the solid based house stay
standing? Discuss with your students what philosophies of this world can create
a base of shifting sands in our lives.

 

Stories of Christmas Carols

Stories of Christmas Carols

by Debra Conley

Stories of Christmas Carols by Ernest Emurian (Baker Book House
Co.) is a treasure of history about our favorite Christmas songs. I recommend
that every family include a few of these expository readings in their holiday
traditions. Charles Wesley, the Methodist theologian, is credited with writing
the words to Hark! The Herald Angels Sing as well as some 6500 other songs! The
Reverend George Whitefield, who worked with Wesley, published the words to the
carol in 1753. It was Jewish born composer Felix Mendelssohn who was asked to
set the words to music and composed the popular version we sing today.

The prolific hymn writer Isaac Watts, the son of an Anglican
Church deacon, wrote Joy To The World! This carol has been printed in more
languages than any other. The musical portion was added by George Frederick
Handel and is part of his most famous work, The Messiah.

Silent Night was more than just a song to father Joseph
Mohr, Priest of the Church of St. Nicholas, located in the Austrian Alps; it
was an event. Chief musician and organist of the church, Franz Gruber, announced
that Christmas Eve Mass (the year was 1818) would be done without music since
the old organ in the cathedral was broken. Father Mohr remembered that Gruber
played the guitar and instructed him to play the poem to guitar accompaniment.
The song was named only after the two agreed that their “silent night,” the
mass without an organ, was indeed their best.

We Three Kings is the product of Episcopalian rector John
Henry Hopkins. In his personal notes, Hopkins points out that the three Magi
must have come with a large entourage. Important people traveled that way just
as today. Hopkins also notes that King Herod might not have been as troubled by
the presence of three as he was by three large groups of people traveling to
see the new Messiah.

 

Lydia

Lydia

by Debra Conley

Lydia (in Philippi), the seller of purple dye, can introduce
an interesting study of the different occupations of Bible characters. Lydia
probably used Whelks,   large marine snails from which oil is
extracted to use as a dye. The deep purple color was especially rare in Bible
times and that is why only Royalty wore it. No one else could afford the
valuable coloring. People of ancient days were resourceful, using whatever they
had around them for nearly every purpose. Young students may think that all the
beautiful colors of fabrics from the Bible times were made by their box of
crayons. Plants, including vegetables and flowers, made perfect dyes as did
nuts, bark, and mosses. Here is a suggestion for an activity but it uses hot
water, so be careful around young children. This craft makes a 3-D cornucopia
of paper. Use a large brown sheet of construction paper rolled into a
cornucopia shape and stapled together. For the items coming out of the
cornucopia, cut pieces of plain or white cotton or muslin into shapes of fruits,
leaves, or pumpkins, corn, etc. Make the cut outs large enough to allow for
shrinking. Choose natural dye colors for your cornucopia items: grape juice,
tomato juice, lemon and orange peel, beets, tea or coffee, boiled spinach
(green). Flowers such as coneflower, red cabbage, or pansies can be used for
pink shades. The dye will set best if the vegetable or fruit is heated in
boiling water. This can be done at home and the mixture cooled before bringing
it to class. The dye will not be as strong as it will if you drop the cotton or
muslin into the boiling dye. Whichever you do, after the fabric has been
stirred through the dye to the desired color, add two tablespoons of vinegar to
the dye to help the color set. Remove the cloth with tongs, smooth it out on
waxed paper and allow it to dry naturally. It can be ironed after it is dry.
Flowers, fruits, and vegetables can also be pressed or mashed directly onto the
fabric if you don’t want to use the boiling method. Darker colors like grape
juice will take to the fabric cold just by dipping.

Use the Wordless Book colors for the Cornucopia fruits and
then the centerpiece is also a witness/conversation piece: black for sin; red
for the shed blood; white as snow; gold for Heaven; green for watch and pray
now.

If a cornucopia is too much, the fabric can be cut into
strips, dyed to suit (use the Wordless Book colors), and then woven together
(over and under) to make colorful place mats. The loose ends may be tied
together in two’s or place beads, feather, buttons, or fun foam cut outs over
the ends and glue in place.

 

Distorted Christians

Distorted Christians

by Debra Conley

One of
several lessons about describing a Christian comes to mind when I think of all
the costumes and disguises we see on display for Halloween. This one is usually
more favored with primary age children because they know the character: 
Meet Mr. Potato Head, Christian Extraordinaire.

If you have
one of those plastic accessory toys (they are still available new after all
these years) you can create a memorable object lesson. Start with a blank head
(this refers to the toy). Show the perfect image advertised on the box, showing
what a perfectly assembled Mr. Potato Head looks like. Now ask the children
what Mr. Potato Head will look like if he has his ears tuned to the world and
not to the Word of God. As they give their answers, place the ears on backwards
or upside down. Now ask about what kind of talk the Christian is commanded to
speak. If Mr. Potato head wants to sit with his cool friends at lunch and talk
disrespectfully about their teacher or their parents, what kind of mouth would
he have? Place the mouth on the back of his head, or in a funny position.
Complete the lesson with the nose, eyebrows and other related ways the
Christian can get off track.

Present Mr.
Distorted Potato Head to the class and ask them, “Is this the way Mr. Potato
Head is supposed to look?” After listening to their answers, ask them if others
see the Christian God wants them to see when they look at you. Is your
testimony obscured by ears that are twisted to listen to things you know you
shouldn’t? Is the conversation from your mouth always straight and true? Do
your eyes keep themselves pure? If you aren’t careful, people you hope to
influence by your Christian testimony will see that distorted image instead of
the advertised picture on the box.

For
discussion: what are some of the sounds or conversations our ears should not
listen to? How can we keep our tongues (mouths/conversation) pleasing to the
Lord?

 

Send in the Frogs

Send in the Frogs

by Debra Conley

Read the eighth chapter of Exodus to your class
first. There are many lessons here, but one that is good for teaching youth is
that God does not tolerate breaking our promises to Him, nor does He overlook
compromise. The plague of frogs was just one of God’s punishments upon the
Pharaoh of Egypt for not harkening to Moses, God’s spokesman. Note in this
chapter that the plague of frogs did not actually injure a person, but created
an environment most unpleasant! Think about eating your dinner with a layer of
live frogs covering your plate. What would it be like to swim in a pool so
thick with live frogs that you couldn’t move your arms without frogs clinging
all over them? Could you walk outside if frogs covered every layer of ground?
Think about walking on top of layers of frogs!

For a craft to do with this lesson, make a frog
from a thin paper plate folded in half. Paint the outside green and the inside
red for the mouth. Add a purple or black tongue and glue or paint eyes on the
top fold of the plate. Lunch sized paper bags also make good frogs with mouths.
Use these as puppets and ask the students to create a little play showing why
the frogs came upon Egypt. What did Pharaoh do wrong? Why didn’t the plague of
frogs convince Pharaoh to let the Israelites go? How many more plagues did God
have to send before Pharaoh listened? In verses 25-29 of Exodus 8, Pharaoh
tries to “make a deal” with Moses and compromise his first promise. Does this
work for Pharaoh? If your church substitutes wholesome activities for
Halloween, try a Plagues of Egypt party. Students may come dressed as any
animal from the plagues of Exodus. They should display a badge with their
“consequence” and the verse relating to it on the costume. Include frog races,
serpent (snake) races (they crawl on their bellies), gnat and fly catching
games (bad mitten or butterfly/firefly catchers), and tug of war between Egypt
and Israel or between Pharaoh and Moses. Decorate pumpkins to look like frogs or
cut frog faces into the pumpkins. Instead of scary creatures that pop out in a
maze or fun house, have the plagues come out.

 

Keeping Pure

Keeping Pure

by Debra Conley

Second Thessalonians Chapter 3 is just one example of the command for Christians to keep our personal environment pure. We are commanded to be careful that influences not strictly parallel to the teachings of God’s Word are to be avoided, or as this chapter says, “have no company with them.” Be careful to explain to your students that keeping company with some one or some thing is a continual practice, not intended to mean that we should not speak to them, show kindness to them, or witness to them. We cannot make their habits our habits. I have included here a few ideas of object lessons to demonstrate a known fact of science and nature: the object always reacts to and absorbs its environment.

Test # 1: Fill a clear glass container half full with water. Add red or blue food coloring to make a dark mixture. Name this mixture the environment. Place a long stalk of celery in the water to represent the object (or person) being placed in the environment.  It will take most of your class time, but the water will eventually wick up the stalk and color the celery.

Test # 2: Before your class, place a piece of bread out until mold begins to form on it. Use this as the environment. During class, place several pieces of new bread in a clear container (with a tight lid) in with the moldy one. Discuss with your class what they think will happen to the new bread. Because there are more new pieces than molded ones, will the new ones make the molded piece new again? Make sure the container is tightly closed and leave for a few days. Find your answer as you observe the bread over a few days or a week. NOTE: Only an adult should handle the molded bread and do so with gloves on. Some people are allergic to mold. Remember the rule for allergy items: Don’t breathe it in; don’t touch your skin. Throw the entire container away without ever opening it when you finish this experiment.

Test # 3: Purchase a piece of fruit that is already starting to brown and several that are new and fresh. Peaches or bananas are great for this. As you did with the bread, put the browned fruit in a clear container first to represent the environment. Next, place several new fruits in the container. Secure the lid tightly and leave the fruit for the students to observe. Ask the same questions as before: which environment will win over the others, the good fruit or the bad fruit? NOTE: Follow the same handling rules as for the molded bread. Toss the entire unopened container away!

Follow this with a discussion of other “environments” your students know that will change a good object to a bad one.

 

Children are Literal

Children are Literal

by Debra Conley

We all know how literally children take our words. Not until
the age of 6 or 7 at the earliest do children begin to grasp nuances of
teasing, levity, or criticism. A fine example of this literal thinking occurred
one morning as I was driving my six year old to school. I was listening to the
market report and the financial guru said, “The dollar jumped against the
German mark yesterday.” My six year old asked just how could a dollar jump? She
had listened carefully and interpreted literally.

This observation is important in your teaching of children
under the age of ten. They are mostly still literal thinkers. This is why
teasing, sarcasm, and ridicule are so dangerous with young children. They
assume the literal interpretation of your words. Teachers and parents may tease
or ridicule a child over actions that are embarrassing to them without
realizing that the problem is theirs, not the child’s. Don’t damage a child’s
self-esteem over your hang-ups. Dobson and many other fine Christian counselors
tell us that a child’s self esteem must be firmly in place before he starts
school, or failure may easily set in when he thinks he is not capable or like
other children because he has heard so much ridicule about his poor habits (or
ones that his parents don’t like) and not enough about his good ones. It’s
really about literal thinking.

Consider how many jokes your younger children don’t get or
the fact that they don’t start telling jokes themselves until they are older.
Why? Because they don’t get them! Of course, the precocious child will be ahead
of the curve, but frequently, he will have to tell his jokes to older people,
not to his peers.

Teachers (and that includes the ultimate teachers, parents)
must take into account the thinking level of their students. So does that mean
that one can’t laugh and have fun with young children? Of course not. The
literal fun of humorous pictures or examples (see my column on potato heads of
October, 2005) is what young children find enjoyable. They listen intently to
skits, illustrated lessons, or puppet ministries because the words are acted
out literally.

The point here is to measure your words carefully. Young
children are literal. What about the teenager? They are much more capable of
understanding levity and nuance, but they are also at one of the most
vulnerable stages in their lives and may need more encouragement than you 
realize. This is why it is important to begin lessons with a positive or
encouraging statement. Even if your lesson is about the consequences of bad
choices or wrong associations, a good teacher will start with the positive.

 

Expositional Learning

Expositional Learning

by Debra Conley

When Scripture or any other exposition is taken out of context,
the listener only knows what the speaker says or thinks, not what the writer is
saying or thinking or intends for us to grasp. If we don’t learn all about a
passage, that is, why God said what He said when He said it, then all we are
getting is the speaker’s experience of what those words mean to him. This might
be one way to emphasize this important step in true learning to your students:
Prepare a detailed exposition of a passage of Scripture (refer to my columns of
January 2005 and February 2006). Don’t forget the important step of comparing
Scripture with Scripture. The Bible repeats important lessons numerous times
for obvious reasons. Ask your students to read the passage before coming to
Sunday school. During your Sunday session, let each student present his
summation of what he learned reading this passage. List each response in a
column on your board. Discuss the different opinions (most will be just that)
the students drew from their reading. You should also let them discover why
there are so many variations (this will point out that personal
opinion/observations are the result of that person’s personal experiences with
that subject).

Now present to them the exposition you prepared of the
passage. Do any of their personal observations of the meaning of this passage
match the conclusion drawn from the expository approach? If so, congratulate
that student! Did that student come to the same conclusion by studying or by a
stroke of chance? This method is an excellent way to demonstrate the importance
of real study of any reading, whether Scripture or otherwise. To assume that a
reader’s experience is the only way to evaluate any reading is naïve. To
present it that way is disservice at the least. To dig into the entire
exposition of any reading is the only way to begin to uncover the real meaning.
Sometimes it takes going to numerous sources for background information and it
often happens that new material can shed previously unknown light on passages.

 

Imagination and Illustrations

Imagination and Illustrations

by Debra Conley

The illustration is never as good as the imagination. We’ve
all seen a picture, photo, play, or film that illustrates a prized work of
literature and been quite disappointed in the actual portrayal of the scene or
the character. Our God-given imagination far outplays the human ability to
portray it. I think this is one reason faith is such an important part of
reading the Scripture. Each of us has his own desire for what is perfect and
precious. A former pastor of mine used to tell of his dreams of Heaven which
included massive fields of strawberries. We’ve all pictured our mansion in
glory in our imaginations. Mine has a huge veranda covered with gorgeous
flowers that never fade, wilt, or die. And there’s no Georgia red clay in the
soil!

But my original premise that the imagination is far better
than any illustration is my point. Readers in younger grades have oodles of
pictures on every page, but when they arrive at the upper grades, the reading
includes few illustrations. I think there may be some overkill in the younger
readers rather than a lack of edutainment (my word, not in Webster’s) in the
upper level reading. I’m not opposed to pictures or photos. I actually think
history books ought to contain more actual photos, maps, etc., for the sake of
factual portrayal. However, when reading, especially fiction, the imagination
is the best! Think about a favorite book of yours and what kind of images you
conjured as you read the descriptive passages. Did you later see pictures or a
play about that book and experience some disillusion over the scenes? You
probably did. I’ll never forget being captivated by a commercial about romance
with a handsome prince (I thought I had married the only one!). My mind
immediately created a million images. Then the representation appeared on the
screen: a horribly unkempt male with the curb appeal of a hairy frog. It was a
margarine commercial! I’ll never be able to buy that brand, but every time I
need a good example of something disgusting, I refer to the “Butter Boy.” I’ll
keep the Prince I have, thank you.

Keep the imagination alive and active, rather than providing
your students every image. Let your students read a passage of the Bible and
then illustrate it themselves by drawing a picture of what they imagine. After
they finish, ask them if they were able to draw a picture that was as good as
what they imagined. Compare pictures throughout the class in order to see how
varied our minds can be. Describe a passage of a book with words and then try
to draw what your mind envisions. Let’s make more use of imagination.

 

Opinion vs. Fact

Opinion vs. Fact

by Debra Conley

One way to encourage critical thinking and to illustrate its
importance is to give your students a simple (on the surface) task: Collect an
editorial from a local media source, or a statement of opinion or preference
from a writer. Many of the new “religious” writers are no more than personal
opinion publishers. While opinions are supposed to be personal, they should
have a basis in reality, sensibility, and thought. Facts are also nice.  Opinions
without reasonable basis are useless. Of course, this is what most news
editorials have become, simply a place to demand “This is what I want!” or
“This is what I think.” I fear many Christians swallow this kind of opinion as
life principle without delving into its basis. Let’s work to put opinion on a
more philosophical plane as well as to evaluate its worth.

Start with the basics. What opinion is the writer
expressing? Unfortunately, this is where most teaching of thinking ends. Some
teachers will ask students if they agree or disagree, but that is not the first
part of the skill set to approach.

Proceed with a further analysis. Who is the writer? What
experience with this subject (of the article) does she have? Can you see a
relationship between her experience (or lack of) and the opinion she expresses?
What social, economic, educational, and professional experiences and
associations of the writer might also come through in her opinion? Which one of
these background influences appears strongest in her statements? Choose the
statements you think express more than just a momentary opinion; that is,
statements that reflect a cultural, economic, or educational preference. Is
there a particular point in the writer’s life that a statement can be connected
to?

Next discuss the position of the opinion as an objective
statement. Is the statement valid? Does it have loopholes? Is there fallacious
(unfounded basis) reasoning in the opinion? Could the opinion be true under
some circumstances, or is it a statement that can be proven to be true? How can
it be proven? By examples, experiences (related stories), or by facts? Is the
opinion expressed as conjecture? This means that the writer is proposing a
future possibility, probably one she has thinks will work or should happen. If
certain events occur in the future, would that make this possibility more
likely? List the changes the future will have to have for this event to occur.
Does the writer seem to grasp this? Or does she just throw out an idea without
providing a framework for its completion? What additional resources can you
uncover that will either cement this opinion as good argument or that will show
this opinion to be without merit?

Look to see if the writer offers solutions to these
questions by giving that background information or structure, thus giving you,
the reader, something to think about and to evaluate her expressed opinion as
valid or not.